Disclaimer: ini murni buah pikiran pribadi yang lagi gak terkontaminasi hati.

Gw gak tau asalnya darimana, tapi pasti lo pernah denger dong quote yang kaya gini: 

"if a boy makes u laugh means u like him, but if he makes u cry means u love him" 

Sekarang, at this current point, gw gak ngerti kenapa sih cewek seperti di-design untuk percaya kalo ada cowok yg nyebelin dan berlaku jerk tandanya tu cowok demen. Pernah nonton he's just not that into u?

We are all programmed to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk that means he likes you. - Gigi, He's Just Not That Into You.

Hmmmm.....

Kenapa sih cewek mau aja diperlakukan seenaknya, kadang cenderung dimanfaatkan, dan masih nganggep tu cowok demen sama kita?

Yang jerk dijadiin gebetan/pacar, yg baik dimasukin friendzone. #eaaa

-Laws of modern man-

Berhentilah berpikir, kalo banyakan ribetnya itu lagi diuji Tuhan, seberapa jauh we are willing to sacrifice. Bentar, yakin yang willing to sacrifice itu we? Apa only you and your assumption that he would do the same? Bisa aja lho Tuhan itu lagi ngasih "tanda" that u guys don't belong together. Jujur, gw sering mikir gini dulu dan justifikasi gw ya itu, lagi diuji Tuhan.

Berhentilah berusaha mengubah lelakimu. He would never change. Dan if you don't want to have a future son that acts exactly like him, then u should know where the emergency exits are.

Berhentilah menerima segala larangan sebagai tanda kasih sayang. Apalagi kalo sampe ada kekerasan fisik!

Berhenti jika merasa ragu! It should be simple when it is right, right?

Bukankah kita berhak memilih untuk bersama seseorang yang membahagiakan? Yang membuat kita merasa worth every second of his time? Yang menghargai kita? Yang membesarkan mimpi kita? That would bring out the best in us. 

Bukan yang menghancurkan mimpi. Menuntut ini-itu mematikan potensi.

Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we're told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we're so focused on finding our happy ending we don't learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don't, the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave. And maybe a happy ending doesn't include a guy, maybe... it's you, on your own, picking up the pieces and starting over, freeing yourself up for something better in the future. Maybe the happy ending is... just... moving on. Or maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phone calls, broken-hearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through all the pain and embarrassment you never gave up hope. - Gigi, He's Just Not That Into You.

Semua berhak mencari bahagia. Our own version of a-so-called happy ending. Tapi inget, happiness is something we can only pursuit. Bukan akhirnya, tapi perjalanannya. Dan kalo di tengah perjalanan perlu mengubah jalan, ubah! Selalu jalan ke depan, tapi tau dimana dan kapan harus ambil emergency exit. 

Hahaha.. Valentine's day pooper ya gw... Biarin deh.

Selamat merayakan hari kasih sayang bagi kalian yang merayakan. Gw doain kekasih hati kalian adalah orang yang membesarkan mimpi dan mau sama-sama membangun mimpi itu jadi nyata. 

Xoxo